Journal Entry 3/23/25

● Now that I've been more cautious, and have been reporting every little incident that could be related to my stalker, my cats seem to be doing better. 

I dropped putting my own water into their bowls, I only do so when I'm about to leave three house and if I was drinking from a water bottle prior to leaving. 

Say, in the morning before work, since I keep a bottle of water next to me while I'm sleeping I'll pour that into their bowls before leaving for the day. 

I also check the PH levels in their water bowls often.

Now that they haven't seemed to have an incident, they seem to be doing much better. 

Tiger, who seems like he started to have skin problems when I was having symptoms and sharing my water with them without taking the necessary precautions first, has healed up nicely. Fur is growing where he seems like he was over grooming, possibly due to the skin irritation that the poisoning causes. It's something I noticed about myself too. When I was having this symptoms I also had bumpy or rough skin. It was dry and itchy and I developed more body acne. 

Winter had wonky eyes at the time I believe she was getting tainted water. One pupil was dilated to a different size than the other. At one point I thought she had fallen from a shelf and could be concussed. But, then it would go away and come back. 

The others don't seem to be throwing up so much, just the normal amount of hairballs being coughed up, but no vomiting up their food. 

●I was so bummed today when I realized that partnering up with a friend in a business venture was a horrible idea because of my stalker. 

There are so many factors to consider, and I know I can keep an eye out for myself for the most part and avoid getting poisoned. And that I'd I do slip up abs let me guard down that I'll usually notice the effects of poison pretty quickly at yours point... I've had a lot of practice 😅

But when it comes to others, I just can't take that risk. 

Is just one of many ways in which this guy has negatively impacted my life. I can't keep friends and family around me often or he may harm them, or they may get caught in the cross fire, or they may turn out to not be as loyal a friend or family member as I once thought. 

Either way, because of him I'm usually having to keep to myself and do things alone. 

At least I have my cats to keep me company I guess, lol.

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