Journal Entry for 4/4/25: the EEOC is giving me the right to sue one if the participating companies!!!

I sent to the EEOC today for my appointment too see if I'm allowed to sue the sandwich shop for the harassment, abuse, and retaliatory termination my stalker instigated against me. 

I'm still baffled by the fact that he was able to get people within a company too party along with such behaviors that shutoff have been known to be incredibly unprofessional and abusive within a workplace kitenge that there could be consequences to the company as well as themselves individually. 

I'm also kind of sad about this, i really did care about that company, I met a lot of really good people and have a lot of really good memories there. I liked the people who helped run the place and the owner. The fact that they allowed these things to happen despite my many complaints about the treatment, which I've never had to complain about before, was just... sad.

But, this is a small victory for me considering my abuser is believe to have had a hand in that treatment. This will, hopefully, be a warning to anyone else who decides to play along with his twisted and highly abusive game. 

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