Control and crazy making behavior to the extreme: Unwelcome, unwanted, unneeded and illegal. Written on 6/16/25
The abuser has caught onto the fact that I'm cleaning houses through homeaglow and I'm very certain he staged at least one cleaning for me to do.
This is completely and totally unwelcome, it's unnecessary due to the fact that I'm a very capable person with an extensive resume of desirable skills.
I've run my on damn companies for crying out loud. And I'm fully capable of finding my own work and have no need for some stalker to hack into my things, keep other people's requests for my services from me (which I've reason to believe he doing) and then set up his own just so he can have control over my life.
For example, the way he controlled who I did estate sales from based on my observations of events that happened:
When I called my estate sale leads on estatesales.net they wouldn't answer. There were times I'd call over a dozen leads in a single day and not get an answer or a call back.
After doing it for a year, the fact that that happened was EXTREMELY unusual and an unlikely occurrence. I've had many different sales jobs and to have absolutely no one answer or call back after calling that many people is just unheard of.
Then, I get a call from someone that I never contacted who wants a sale done. That house would have a lot of things just just so coincidentally would have things to do with things I've recently experienced, talked about, looked up, or in some way mentioned.
The same thing is happening here, it's not an issue if him wanting to help me. It's an issue if him needed to control what kind I'm doing and thereby control how much I'm making, where I'm going.... it's a control issue.
And that's all it comes down to, that's all it is, is a need to control another pertain and it's ABUSE. It's illegal, he's been told to leave me alone, he's been told I want nothing to do with him and he needs to stop. This is being reported to the police.
What he's done is set up a cleaning, ordered it through the website out app and the staged things so I know is him based on recent things I've done, seem, said out emotionally responded to because he is a sicko pervert that watches me and had no life. This is something he also did with my estate sales business and why I had to stop doing that because the right of doing it again triggers my ptsd because of him.
Here's how I know this was a staged cleaning yesterday:
I did a cleaning for a client named Baily B.
Well, Baily is the name of my son's dog. I really like that name for a dog. It just so happens that my property mate that I met 2 years ago coincidentally had a dog mashed Baily (I've already determined from other things she's done or fair that she's a participant) and then this... OK it's a coincidence, at first there's no reason to think otherwise except after so many other coincidences.
The past for that cleaning job was $250, which is exact what I said I'm paying per week the night before for a rental in a post that I made on Nextdoor where I was asking for leads for getting a car.
Ok, still, maybe a happy little accident and a very nice work day payout!
But the problem is, there's just more and more coincidences, all of which are not unusual on their own but together reek of the kind of thing my stalker dies, what he has a compulsion to do due to his personality disorder and whatever else is psychologically wrong with him that causes him to "Mirror" things in my life. He died this to key me know that it's him "giving" me the job when his help is, we'll, as the title of this blog post states... it's not wanted and just a way for him to prevent me from being my own work out of some sick delusional need to make me dependent on him and him alone while doing it from the shadows because he's a sick psychopath.
But, I digress. Here are the other coincidences.
Baily has two very small boys in soccer. Obviously a client I'd relate to since I have 2 boys and coached one of their soccer teams. But, they were supposedly playing that day across the street, in mid June... soccer is a spring and summer sport. There were no kids playing soccer over at the field a cross the street that day either.
She kept trying to bring me food for lunch, which would be nice except that I was already weary of her by that point and I don't let someone in suspicious of handle my food or drinks due to the repetitive poisonings.
I've been complaining about my stomach issues recently to other people, not to get. There was a ginger ale on the fridge that she offered to me despite me never saying anything about my stomach issues to her.
She had a Letterman jacket that was red for dead that says Boyd, the street I used to live on. Other than a few jackets and a cat litter box there was nothing left in the house as she stayed that she had moved out over 2 weeks ago...
There was also a Letterman jacket that had her name, Baily, and a last name that started with the letter "N" which could be her Maiden name sure. But, according to the size chart on the wall no one in that house has a lay name starting with a ln "N" or a "B" like it is in the app... where did the "B" come from?
The size chart has all kinds of different last name initials but none Mayfield, like if any of there were the patents non of the kids have the made last name.
She also said both her boys were very little, but all these initials and hights recorded on the wall show much taller people than that.
However, the day before I cried while watching "No good deed" on Netflix when the dad poisoned over the size making of his kids because it reminded me of mine and I even commented to myself that he should have taken that part of the doorframe off and kept it and just replaced it before selling the house.
Which means that those markings on my "client's" for frame were planted there because of the emotional reaction I had to a similar thing on the show. And since he hacks my phone and steals me and obviously listens to my conversations weather with others out alone... that was planted.
There were cleaning supplies in gray containers throughout the house set out like it's meant for me instead of where normal people keep them inside the home the day after I set up my cleaning supplies in gray containers in the vehicle I'm using so they are accessible to be for my job.
But there were a few on the kitchen island, like this one that said "Thrive " on it.
As mentioned in a recent post, I've been talking to a "Special Agent " about Pele associated with Thrive Together Residencies in Fort Worth where I lived temporarily with a supposed schizophrenic woman who claimed she used to clean houses. This woman used to throw out all our food claiming it was poisoned by God. I was getting sick a lot while they what the same symptoms I had when poisoned at The Great Outdoors Subs earlier this year but people who also seemed to be participants for reasons I'll have to go into in another post.
And this, which isn't too uncommon, however I cleaned a house the day before this where they had this exact mop and bucket and I made a big deal about how much I liked it.
You see, these are things that can actually easily be passed off as just normal everyday household things and coincidences. However when being stalked by a man who uses these crazy making temporary tactics it's not.
This is the type of things a deranged stalker and person with a personality disorder will actually do to their victim. They want their victim to know is them and that they are in control and do t in ways they know the victim will notice but that can sound like just a coincidence. This is so that unless they are able to fully explain everything and in ways that describe known psychological behavioral patterns of a stalker/person with a pd the victim would just be told that they're imagining it, there by making the victim feel crazy. Which is the definition of crazy making tactics.
Maybe I've been able to hold on to my sanity for so long because I've studied this and understand what's being done, thereby am able to know that he's doing these things and how to explain it.
