Pretty Sure Stalker is a Lowly Theif, Online Scam Artist and sociopath
What has occurred to me for a while now is that Ely, or Joseph Chapman, seems to not have a real concept of what things cost, what things are worth and just an understanding and respect for money in general.
This occurred to me at one point when he knew I was getting a $2,000 check for the sake of my car, which I was going to need to pay rent with, but he brought up buying a drum set.
As a single mom trying to raise her kids in a middle to upper middle class town at the time, ever penny counted. And having been with me for many months prior, it would have been fairly obvious that I couldn't afford something like that. Especially knowing that I was in food stamps.
The lack of understanding of money and the frivolous use of what seems to be a never ending supply of financial resources combined with the Ransomware attack and hacking and phishing tactics he uses only leaves one conclusion. He's a cyber thief. He must likely not only uses Ransomware tactics but it's very probable that he steals from individual's accounts.
The reason I am fairly certain of this is based on the many random and unusual transactions I've received, as well as my kids. Which, unfortunately, would be hard to report online like we're supposed to due to his hacking. I'm certain he'll just intercept whatever communications I send to any financial institutions and make sure it's never received by them to investigate.
He denotes a lack of respect for work or for hard working individuals who he's obviously harming with his actions. And to be honest, I think everything he did to make it hard for me to survive financially, all he did to make me and my kids lose our homes and to make me end up on the streets was solely an attempt to make me need his dirty money so badly that I wouldn't care where it came from and wouldn't reject him for where he got it. Which matches his pathology completely.
In addition, it's obvious that he's spending a lot of money messing with me, but doesn't show he has money. He doesn't dress like he has any and drives over cars. This shows that he is hiding the fact that he has it, which someone will only do for very few reasons, either because he's afraid people will treat him differently, which I don't think he'd have a problem with being treated like he has money. It would actually feed his ego and make him feel special or important and get him the superficial attention he craves.
The other reason, he doesn't want Pele to know what he has because they would figure out where he got it from. Which means he had to be careful about how he spends what he has, hiding transactions through apps like cash app or venmo and sending it through different names, like with the unusual transactions I've received.
This would also explain why I keep having trouble getting into old cash app, venmo and zelle accounts after a certain amount of time has passed or when I've upgraded phones.
It's funny how my whole family was willing to go crazy for this guy, doing everything he asked if them. All while I'm sitting over here knowing that if something is too good to be true, it most likely is. And why I decided to investigate instead of just don't whatever the lunatic wanted of me.
And why once I started looking into things he tried getting my entire family to believe I was the one chasing after or pestering him, as opposed to it being the other way around. He knew what I'd find out if I kept digging and looking into what he was doing and how he was doing it.
