My Stalking Journal (Ely Sellers aka Joseph Chapman stalks and abuses Women and Children)

Conversation I had with my mom this morning because I'm having to move by the 9th and this man has caused me to not be able to steadily pay for things and survive.  If anyone wants to help, I have 5 great cats that need homes. One went home with my son this morning. I mean, think about it, I've been living cheap for a year and had very well paying jobs.  And the SECOND I start to save anything, he poisoned me at work.  Next job, saved some and then he had people harass me at work and the second I said anything to HR, fired.  And it just continues, job after job. There is no way to survive like that, let alone have a life that has any form of pleasure in it to enjoy life.  The only thing this guy understands is hurting and abusing others. That's how he was in middle school, that why he got pulled out of school in Middle school and that's how he is now. He is a very sick, highly disturbed, incredibly abusive man who enjoys hurti...

●While I was giving an update on my entry from yesterday I kept seeing the word "stop" in my predictive text.  Having into my phone and using predictive texts to convey a message to me is something Chapman has been doing for a while now, I have a couple of screenshots in one of my journals to show this.  Telling the other person to "stop" was something he and I did when we were together and either of us were getting too emotional in an argument or conversation or pestering the other.  Typically when either of us said this, the other would take a step back so we could both calm down.  On my update, saying that he was still delusional in thinking we were together (which was when the word "stop" kept appearing in my predictive text) must have been upsetting to him.  The thing is, I don't care. There is no reason for me to stop because he isn't supposed to be in my life anymore. I broke up with him and have told him on many occasions to stop contacting...

Usually when I request an extension from my pay as you go electricity provider I get a text and email. I usually take a screenshot of the extension just in case, which I did do today. But the texts and emails seem to have been blocked.  I think he's actually harassing me through a Netflix series I'm binge watching. Letter to Netflix below. There are several places in the series that have had the lines changed or something.  *Update 7/29/25 Looks like a couple hours after I sent the letter to Netflix he posted videos about how I did something that he feels had no words to justify. This just means he's mad at me, which means he is doing something either to the Netflix servers or my account.  He tends to think no one is justified in yell on him when he does something illegal or harmful to others, which is a trait of his personality disorder. And will think that that person is in the wrong for it, his mentality is "how dare t...

The stress is becoming just easy to much, I need a break, but there is o break and no getting away from him.  Honestly, if it weren't for the cat's I'd have disappeared, gotten away by for, gone to another city in another state and found a DV shelter to help me.  There's no help here, the last place he hacked and erased his info from their computers and then threatened or bribed my advocate.  That and trying to survive when he can and soar cause so much damage and so many problems to the point that I can't even keep a job before he has people harassing and trying to put things in my drink. Then somehow of I complain about the harassment I am the one that gets fired instead of it being investigated or reported to police like an hr manager should do. Which is what happened at the Smokin Dragon earlier this year.  I'm living just day by day, literally just going out to quell Uber to pay the things that are necessary for me to keep my pay as you go electricity, dail...

●I'm very certain that this psychopath is blocking my communications to family and my kids all because he's butt hurt that I dint spend time with any of them specifically BECAUSE he uses, manipulates or poisons them to abuse me further. It's like he thinks that I'm going to think they they are mad and don't want to talk to me. When if anything my two boys would probably give anything to get this freak out if our lives so they can safely be with me again.  His "punishments" make no sense, and are so easy to spot now that I know what and who he is that it's laughable.  ● It seems like I'm getting over another poisoning. The only time I can think of that it would have happened would be with my bottle water delivery. As soon as I realized my mouth was irritated, being unusually tired and the hazy thinking I stated bringing home fresh water for the night every day.  It takes weeks to get over the impact of whatever he using. 1-2 weeks of nausea, stomach...

I actually am a bit shocked that he's still doing this... I've 18k videos about me, that's just obsessive and really gross. And some still pretending we're still together... i haven't seen the guy in 2 years. And haven't so much as touched him in 3. Nor will I ever. He's a disgusting monster of a person. And what about that one that says not to contact him while I hate him??? I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM.  I dint want to see him, talk to him, contact him, nothing... I want him out of my life and to leave me alone. He's disgusting. This dude stalked me for over a decade while I didn't even remember he still existed. Continued to do things to damage my life, my kids lives, my family's lives and harmed anyone I dated from what I've been able to piece together. WHILE I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW HE EXISTED! And then when he got bored of me not knowing it was him doing these things he implanted himself into my kids so he could make it obvio...

● Apparently someone I don't know and have never met has the ability to give me a psychological diagnosis without ever having talked to me, with no known training, and only with information found in my blog and on FB... 🙄 I think someone is getting freaked out that I've linked a bunch of his hackings and am letting the victims and authorities know about it so it can be investigated.  I've now informed people who work for Ben E Keith. As well as passed along yet more information to legal authorities and even have one of my phone he's hacked over, the FBI have that in their possession now.  If he doesn't like it, he should just leave me the hell alone like I told him to years ago. Yet, it's kind of sad that he thinks that convincing me that I'm not sane is going to do anything. The people he is going to have to convince now are law enforcement, his other victims, and most likely a judge and jury. The info has already reached a lot of people who need to know w...

On March of 2023 there was a cyber attack that disrupted the food supplier Ben E. Keith. This caused many Raising Cane's locations to have to serve limited menus or close down for a day or more.  This included the location my son worked at at the time in Fairview, Tx. He can't home that day and told me the store was closed due to Russian hackers.  This would have happened about 7 months after I broke up with my hacker/stalker and around the time that I needed my son's financial help paying for a very visit for the abuser's cart that was still in my possession.  The vet visit was because the cat was throwing up alot and his breath smelled. The very said it was a problem with his kidneys.  At that time I wasn't able to do much due to symptoms that I now know to be associated with being poisoned by the abuser, Joseph Chapman (aka Ely Sellers). And I now know that whatever he was having someone give me was being put in my drinks. My water, which I often poured in a cats...

This is the kind of lunacy I have to deal with when I ever decide to be on social media.  On one of his fake profiles he's trying to have some kind of connection work me by saying what is happening to me is happening to him... I was recently in Cherokee nation and ended up reporting something out there, which is why his fake profile is using that as their location. The other is trying to gaslight me into thinking I am schizophrenic. I'm 43, never been diagnosed with a severe mental illness, have been to a behavioral hospital for wanting to kill myself because of this lunatic not leaving me alone and causing me to lose everything.  This is something a Borderline will do when they are actually having a psychotic episode, they think the person they are attached to is psychotic and will project their psychosis onto that person. So, he was probably psychotic when he wrote that one.  All this, in addition to trying to get a response or if me now that I no longer respond to comm...

Being poisoned with caustic chemicals repetitively means my entire digestive system is messed up often. There are many days I have to force myself to eat breakfast, force myself to take food so that I can eat and keep my energy for the rest of the day.  On days like that, making myself eat something also helps me not get nauseated throughout the day.  That used to mean getting a pack of those Grandma's Cookies at the gas station. They seemed to have enough sugar and fiber to get me started for the day until my stomach could handle something else.  Now, the thought of eating even those makes me sick to my stomach and I have had to go with a few crackers at times to get something in me so my stomach will accept more food later. 

What has occurred to me for a while now is that Ely, or Joseph Chapman, seems to not have a real concept of what things cost, what things are worth and just an understanding and respect for money in general.  This occurred to me at one point when he knew I was getting a $2,000 check for the sake of my car, which I was going to need to pay rent with, but he brought up buying a drum set.  As a single mom trying to raise her kids in a middle to upper middle class town at the time, ever penny counted. And having been with me for many months prior, it would have been fairly obvious that I couldn't afford something like that. Especially knowing that I was in food stamps. The lack of understanding of money and the frivolous use of what seems to be a never ending supply of financial resources combined with the Ransomware attack and hacking and phishing tactics he uses only leaves one conclusion. He's a cyber thief. He must likely not only uses Ransomware tactics but it's very proba...

Recent Stalker videos and the forced abortion/abuse while pregnant Check out my tiktok video about his recent videos and the time he tried to force me into an abortion.  Below are screenshots shown showing how he kept trying to get me to abort our baby when I thought I was pregnant and how he tried to bribe me with a relationship if I were to have the abortion. 

So far, in an attempt to get this creep to please finally leave me alone and so my life can be my own, I've passed along information to many places, people and law enforcement agencies.  I don't always talk to them myself. From what I've seen, if I set up am appointment to talk to someone I'm opening myself up to the abuser hyjacking my phone calls to make sure I talk to someone he's paid, or I end up talking to someone he's paid off to try to keep me from reporting him and launching an investigation. So, I've had to get creative in my attempt to get information to authorities or others who may be able to help or further investigate his cyber crimes, and abuse.  His antics are constant, and continuously interfere with my life, my enjoyment of life and my ability to support and provide for myself. That combined with his cyber crimes and hacking and stalking my two children in addition to me (one while he was a minor and the other who is still a minor) there...

I'm having trouble finding new homes for my cats so I can get away from my stalker. It seems like when I do get approached by someone wanting to help me with them they are either not actually offering and just trying to engage me in conversation, which is what the stalker/abuser does.  Or, they are off somehow. Like they are wadi TOO eager to help.  Either way, when I decline and then tell someone else that their off behavior is a trait of my ex, the stalker, the people I was talking to become even more aggressive about helping to the point that one of them called me.  I never have this person my phone number, when I asked how they got it they said someone got it off my blog. I didn't post my number in my blog either, I don't make that information public anymore BECAUSE this creep is stalking and harassing me.  Also, this woman's name on my basket ID didn't match the name of the profile I was talking to. Since I mentioned that I know he has had to of poisoned them t...

See more of his stalking videos here:   I need you my love Channel This is where he documents my actions, uses the titles and messages within the videos to let me know that he knows what I'm doing at any given time, mashed threats, and writes obsessive "love" letters and "poetry".  Included in these are videos threatening to kidnap me.

He seems to think it's funny or something that his sick disgusting ass calls me as if he's someone else in the mornings. Today I didn't feel like waking up to quiet the ringing of my phone at 9am Wren I was up late working my job and needed to sleep in.  In addition he's teng to be clever by working in the word "Shameless" because that's what I've been binge watching alone at night.  Stalker, hacker, disgusting bull shut that I'm supposed to keep track of for a paper trail and I'm just so friggin sick and tired of the bull shit stalking.

Below are images of my physical journal entries, including a copy of the letter I mailed to the FBI. Apparently those guys take forever to investigate things... But the more I see about what this guy is capable of, the more I'm convinced that he's the one that caused harm to the great City of Dallas. (The blogger app won't let me adjust the orientation of the images)